A very interesting story coming from Ireland made some waves a while ago . The Director of the Adoption Authority of Ireland has warned prospective adoptive parents not to enter into any private arrangements in Mexico.Mr. Geoffrey Shannon said while some particular states within Mexico allow private adoption, none sanction private inter-country adoption.The warning comes after Mexican police said they were planning to question 11 Irish couples following the discovery of an international child-smuggling ring. Seven babies were taken away from the couples after the arrest of three local women accused of buying them from their mothers. Another two babies were removed from a mother accused of selling them.

The babies, aged between two and two years and eight months, have been put into care. Local papers reported the birth mothers were paid 70 euros (approx $100)  a week plus medical expenses while pregnant.The Irish couples are expected to be questioned in Guadalajara, the capital of the Mexican state of Jalisco.

State attorney Jose Coronado said some of the Irish couples had the babies with them because they were told living with them “was part of the process they needed to go through to adopt”.

No formal accusations have been made against the Irish couples, and investigators said they wanted to determine if they were duped into thinking they were taking part in a lawful process.Mexico is a signatory to the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-Operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption.

The Mexican authorities had stated there was only one system of intercountry adoption within Mexico: a public and statutorily regulated system. No children under five should be proposed for intercountry adoption, with the exception of children with special needs. And all documentation for intercountry adoption must be sent by the Irish authority to the Federal Central Authority.

The Embassy or Consulate schedules the final visa interview once all required documents have been provided. The Department of State is committed to processing immigrant visas for adopted children expeditiously. Keep in mind, however, that the time required to issue your child’s visa will depend on the specific circumstances in his or her country of residence.

Such visa application can take a long time, so start early and as soon as possible. It’s an exciting time to you and your spouse, but bringing your baby home is a long process and journey. Many loving parents waited months to get their baby home. The advice is plan ahead and start early.

Source: the Bureau of Consular Affairs, U.S. State Department

International adoption is becoming more and more regulated and prospective parents need to learn as much as possible before beginning the adoption process. You don’t want to be hit with big surprises when you’re falling love with the child in a foreign country.

The Hague Adoption Convention generally forbids prospective adoptive parents from having any contact with the child’s birth parents, and/or the child’s legal guardians before the country of birth determines the child is adoptable according to Convention principles and refers the child for adoption to a family.

Source: the Bureau of Consular Affairs, U.S. State Department

1. Adopt a child from a different country than your own through permanent legal means; and
2. Bring that child to your home country to live with you permanently.

Through intercountry adoption, the legal transfer of parental rights from birth parent(s) to another parent(s) takes place. Over the last decade, U.S. families have adopted on average approximately 20,000 children from foreign nations each year.

Many families in other countries adopt U.S. children. Intercountry adoption is governed by both the laws of the country in which the child lives and the country in which the adoptive parents live. Under U.S. law, there are two distinct intercountry adoption processes: the Hague Convention process and the non-Hague Convention process. Which process you will follow will depend on whether or not the other country involved is also a party to the Hague Convention.

Source: The State Department

The total cost of adopting varies from $0 to more than $40,000, depending on a number of factors. The chart below outlines some general categories of adoption and costs associated with the services provided. The wide range reflects the multitude of factors that may affect costs, including the type of adoption, the type of placement agency or facilitator, and the child’s age and circumstances. The best way to find out the detailed costs, talk to the adoption agency. The chart below can offer some sample costs.

Source: Child Welfare Information Gateway

The first thing you will want to do after making the decision to adopt is to educate yourself about adoption. Read books on how to adopt and search the government adoption gateways.

Requirements for adoptive parents vary depending on the type of adoption and agency involved. In the United States, because there are few infants available, agency criteria for prospective adoptive parents are often more restrictive for infant adoptions than for adoptions of older children.

Many adoption agencies even set age limit for the adoptive parents. In other words, you can’t be too old to adopt infants. In general, it is easier to adopt older children, whether in the US or abroad.

Source: The Department of Health and Human Services

There are 2 kinds of assistance under this program:

Nonrecurring Adoption Assistance. The parents will be paid or reimbursed for one-time reasonable and necessary expenses directly related to the legal adoption of a child with special needs that have not been reimbursed from other sources or funds. These reimbursable expenses may include the home study fees, attorney fees, replacement of the birth certificate, and travel for visits to the child (including mileage, lodging, and meals). The Federal maximum for this type of assistance is $2,000 for each adoptive placement. However, Some expenses in excess of this amount may be tax deductible.

The 2nd is the Recurring Adoption Assistance. It provides funds that may be used for any identifiable need of the child. These usually take the form of monthly payments to the parents of eligible children. The maximum payment amount may not exceed the amount that would have been paid for maintenance if the child had remained in a foster home in that State. Payments can continue until the child reaches age 18 (or until age 21 where the State determines that the child has a physical, mental, or emotional disability), and these payments continue even if the family moves to another State. While adoption assistance is not taxable, portions could be taxed if the family cannot prove that the amount spent on the child’s support was more than the amount of assistance received. Families are advised to consult a tax professional.

Source: Child Welfare Information Gateway

If your family is preparing for a step-parent adoption, be prepared to invest time and money in the process. You will need a lawyer, and your county or state of residence may require home visits and social worker interviews as well. Be sure to save enough to cover all the fees involved in the process.

When the adoption takes place, the child will be issued a new birth certificate with the birth parent and adoptive parents’ names. You may want to change the child’s surname during this process; if the child is old enough to understand, it can be helpful to involve him or her in the conversation as part of the process of acknowledging the change in the family. If the child is too young to remember, it’s best to start introducing the information about the adoption naturally.

Little children love hearing stories of their birth and early months, and if your child grows up having this information about his past discussed in a matter-of-fact fashion, it will not come as a shock later.

Couples who are unable to have their own children either through fertility problems or because they are a gay couple will now find that they have more options. As in they can either, choose adoption or surrogacy.

The choice will however, be very personal. Does the couple feel the need to be genetically related to their child? There is gestational surrogacy now as well as traditional surrogacy. In gestational surrogacy, if the mother is still able to reproduce her own eggs but cannot, for whatever reason carry the child either at all or to full term then the egg can be taken from the intended mother, fertilised with the intended fathers sperm and then placed into the surrogate mothers uterus to be carried by the surrogate mother for the next nine months. As with traditional surrogacy, where a sperm donor is needed for the surrogate mother to be made pregnant and she then carries the baby for the nest nine months.

There are a lot of anti-gay and lesbian adoption laws in foreign countries and still, even in so called enlightened countries, there are still people with strong feelings against such issues as gay and lesbian adoption. Due to this, the majority of gay and lesbian couples have already taken the surrogate mother route and have been building their families in just such a way for a long time.

Also, a large amount of foreign countries are now shutting their doors to prospective adoptive parents. Guatemala closed its doors to international adoption in 2007, Vietnam in 2008. Also, staying in these countries while sorting out all of the legal requirements involved in adoption can be very arduous and somewhat costly. There are also quite a few uncertainties involved in domestic adoption, this is why so many people now go for international adoption, but as more and more countries make it either impossible or extremely difficult, this option is now not so easy.

The large majority of people will not be able to afford the high cost of American surrogacy. It can very often come in at $100,000 or more. This is more often than not through an agency, but as it can be a very complex process it is not advisable to try to cut costs by going it alone. An agency will help you in so many different ways.

Because of the high cost of domestic surrogacy, there are many couples who are now looking at International surrogacy. India has been offering this service to foreign intended parents for a long time but at the moment, due to the unrest in India and the recent bombings the majority of international parents to be have started to look elsewhere. The Ukraine does offer this service also to foreigners who are looking for surrogate mothers outside of their own country. Also, in the Ukraine it is illegal for the surrogate mother to change her mind at the birth and keep the baby. They also have some very good agencies that will help the intended parents through any problems they might have. Also, Russia offers this service to foreigners and Guatemala. Guatemala may seem to be the best country to go for if you are American, as you can get quick flights, cheaply and more often than flying to Europe or Asia. Also, Guatemalan agencies have some very forward thinking medical clinics and state of the art care for all concerned.

So, the options are quite straightforward. You just need to sit down and work out what suits your requirements best.

Ashley Kate is the publisher of Surrogate Motherhood website. The site offers information on becoming a surrogate mother.

Also bear in mind that different countries have different sets of laws and other regulations regarding the practice of adoption. It is a good idea to do some research first, once you have considered the consequences of infant adoption Once you have done these, though, and you have decided that you want to go on with it, then, by all means, do. The family you create (or re-create) will be healthy not only for the child’s sake, but for yours as well.

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